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The effect on Miss Havisham of being abandoned was to kill the love she had for her fiancee and by extension, men and the world in general. She takes up with Pip with thhe intention of having Estella break his heart - a sick fancy as she calls it - as doubtless is having a corpse as a groom. By now we are equating the marriage with death and decay being the honeymoon thereafter.